November 2023

 Dear friend, 

The highlight of the month, and dare I say the year, was our weekend trip to Vermont.  I signed us up for a morning at a dairy farm and it exceeded all my expectations.  We learned so much about dairy farming, milked a cow, bottle-fed a 4-hour old calf and then the kids got to actually play mid-wife and help a cow give birth to a breech calf.  I still have perm-grin thinking about it.  It was mind-blowing!
From there we headed further north for a Ben and Jerry's factory tour, which of course, was delicious.  
We enjoyed the rest of the day with a beautiful hike and a visit to the Antique Mall.  It was fascinating and we had a great time together.  
I often joke about the Clydesdale being Elias' spirit animal.  A huge animal with massive muscles that's built to carry heavy loads.  You often see them with blinders on so their eyes don't wander and they remember to stay grinding away at the hard task ahead.  Built for the hurt locker.  My Elias.  Isn't he so cute in this picture!
The kids cracked me up one day when they brought me these plans for our future.   We will all live on a huge compound and we will each have an individual home for our respective families (except for Mom and Dad, they have a really nice motorhome).  They had so many details about all the fun things to do on the compound.   I loved it!
Since Rose started Kindergarten I set the goal to attend the temple once a month.  My friend Dayna and I have been going into the city and this month we squeezed in a little extra time to attend the holiday market.  
They boys class had a great Veteran's Day share.  
The month was filled with youth service projects, family craft projects, increasing independence (Joy has joined a 2nd grade girl biking gang) and medical appointments (Smith has been diagnosed with asthma).  
My friends had a big "sparkle party" for her 40th and it was fun to run into my cousin Anne there!
We hosted our third annual Flood of Gratitude and sent off more thank you cards than ever.  
We are so proud of Aunt Corie for publishing a book.  
It's been great fun reading it and giving it to all my friends.  
I love my sisters.  We all got to FaceTime for Corie's birthday.  I am so grateful to have these powerful female warriors by my side in this life. 
Our ward put together a "Book of Epistles" as a Christmas gift.  People wrote in an "epistle" to share with the ward. Rose wasn't quite ready for such a task and Summer was slammed her various projects, but here are everyone else's.  
Brittany: 

Elias: 

On June 6th, 1944, my grandfather, H. Smith Shumway and his fellow soldiers earnestly watched the approaching coastline of Omaha Beach, Normandy, France. A primal anxiety, too potent to risk unhinging with words, electrified the air between them. For now, all was calm: a serene, white sand beach; sea birds gliding over steady, rolling surf; and high cliffs framed in tender morning light. Tensed for battle, the soldiers stood shoulder to shoulder, but grappled with the impending peril alone, quietly, each steeling his mind—and then doing so again, and then again—in preparation for the ferocious tinderbox their arrival would ignite. 


Then, as if all at once, the awaiting savagery of the moment arose and hurled itself roaring towards them. -72- The boat’s heavy door sliced the water and ground into the sand, delivering its cargo to the beast of war. Without hesitation, Smith and his friends sprung forward, exchanging coiled adrenaline for violence, and by so doing fulfilling promises made long ago. 


My grandfather’s regiment, nicknamed the “Big Red One,” was the first to hit Omaha beach that fateful morning. Many fell, but their bravery set the tone for those that followed and inspired the ultimate liberation of Europe. I’ve pondered Smith’s motivations and those of his regiment to join the military and readily jump into tremendous danger. Interestingly, they shared a common motto as a regiment that offers an elegant distillation, perhaps, of all their individual stories and unique motivations. Their motto, as it has permeated my own heart, has become to me among the most sacred of refrains. It is, quite simply, “Duty First.” 


This concept of honoring commitments—whether personal or shared—is a powerful and eternal principle of progression and strength. 


Shouldering salvation’s weight as He knelt in Gethsemane, Jesus prayed the meekest of prayers, saying, “Father, if thou be willing, remove this cup from me: nevertheless not my will, but thine, be done” (Luke 22:42). 


Reflecting later upon this pivotal moment, the Lord said, “Which suffering caused myself, even God, the greatest of all, to tremble because of pain, and to bleed at every pore, and to suffer both body and spirit—and would that I might not drink the bitter cup, and shrink—Nevertheless, glory be to the Father, and I partook and finished my preparations unto the children of men” (D&C 19:18-19). 


At the precipice of infinite suffering, our beloved Savior persevered and kept his premortal covenant to His Father and to us. Jesus Christ, the supreme and ultimate example of “duty first.” 


I bear witness to the power of sacred covenants. They can guide and sustain us, motivating us forward especially in our most dire moments. In my own personal trials, I’m grateful for holy promises that reaffirm my divinity, clarify my eternal purposes, and connect me to the enabling and ennobling power of my Savior. I testify that God and Jesus Christ live and love us. 


Brittany: 

 

I love taking the sacrament with you each week.  There is something so powerful about coming together to partake in the same practice our Savior instituted the night before he sacrificed everything for us.  Don’t you love that on the first day of each week, we are invited to set aside all other tasks and concerns to come and commune with Him?  Each of us in our different stages of life, pausing to put on nice clothes and come to a space dedicated to feeling his Spirit.  Saints of all ages and backgrounds gather side by side with the intention of connecting with their Savior on a personal level. As we unify our voices in a song of praise, I love hearing the different voices and languages recounting Christ’s loving sacrifice. 

 

Artists who set out to share a glimpse of the divine, can become (unhelpfully distracted and even) mired in the technique and process of their craft.  With that in mind, I appreciate how simple the church has kept this sublime ordinance.  There is no fancy choir; everyone is invited to sing in preparation. White shirts, plain bread, tap water. There is nothing about the process that gets us tied up in the craft of it.  This powerful, sacred ceremony, performed in accordance with God’s law is a simple, no-frills gateway to feeling God’s love.

 

Christ knew our conversion would take more than the one-time event of baptism, so He provided us with a weekly opportunity to recommit ourselves through the ordinance of the sacrament.  As the bread and water is blessed and sanctified, then passed from person to person and mother to child, it is a unifying act, and yet so personal.  I love the symbolism of witnessing to God by “choosing to partake”.  Bread and water, arguably the simplest forms of food and drink, representing our Savior’s body and blood, are offered to us and we have a choice to partake.  I love feeling the bread and water as I place it in my mouth, and then as it moves down my throat and into my stomach. I envision my cells picking up the nutrients and distributing them throughout my body—distributing holy covenant power throughout my soul—until I am a (re)newed version of myself.  A version that always remembers my Savior, that I may always have his Spirit to be with me. 

 

I am so grateful for my Savior, Jesus Christ.  I don’t understand how the power of the atonement works, but I have come to know that as we make covenants with our Heavenly Father, we are enabled with a power greater than ourselves, providing pronounced strength and understanding to handle the world around us.  I can testify to the correlation between submitting our will in the Lord’s way and access to divine clarity.  I’m grateful that each week I get a chance to sit alongside you and realign my heart with His. 

 


Boyd: 
My family was  on a motorhome trip to Cape Cod. If any of you have ever been on a motorhome trip then you might have seen the bed over the driver's seat. We had been driving for an hour and that bed was everyone's favorite place. We had two ways of getting down. One way was easier but you had nothing to hold on to. The other way was a little harder to not kick someone in the head but it had a handle. We were still driving and I was about to get down from the bed on the easier side but then I heard a voice in my head that said I should go down the safer way. I did not know if it was just me or not but I decided to go down the safer way instead. Right when I was getting down the car hit a bump. Thankfully I listened to that voice in my head and I got down safely. After that I knew that it was the Holy Ghost telling me what to do.  Now because of that experience, I now know the true power of our Heavenly Father.


Smith: 
One of the things that I have a strong testimony of in my life is the Book of Mormon. The Book of Mormon is an amazing piece of scripture. It is about many different people and their journey on this earth. It’s the word of God and it profits us. Many people have been drawn closer to God by reading this book of scripture.

Joy: 
I think that the Holy Ghost is true.  My grandma gives us scriptures at our baptism.  When we get the scriptures we get to read some of them.  We get them when we are eight so I will get them next year.  
When I was three my grandpa had a big tractor.  He liked to put us on the big scooper.  I was sitting on the edge of the tractor shovel and the edge was like a knife.  I was swinging my legs when my cousin pushed the handle and the big shovel fell down.  If I would have swung my legs farther, my legs would have been cut clean off.  I know the Holy Ghost was with me.  
My parents joined us for Thanksgiving this year!  Many thanks to Mom for managing the turkey so we could go down to the Macy's Thanksgiving Parade.  Anne saved us front-row seats right around the corner from her place, the day was gorgeous, and it couldn't have been a better morning!
We came home to enjoy a wonderful, delicious Thanksgiving dinner with lots of friends.  
The celebrations continued as we got to celebrate Summer's 12th birthday!  
It was fun to have my mom here as we went and got her ears pierced and then painted a mural in her room.  I sure love you sweet, SummerGirl.  
Love you all, 
Brittany et al. 

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